I think I understand what you are saying here, however, i am going to have to check it out with other places….

I work from a basic starting point – “All behaviour has a purpose,” and I’d class negativity as a behaviour. We run simulations of our future to come up with the best thing to do in the present. We use our past as the basis for these simulations. If our past had significant emotional events connected to disappointment, being let down, not feeling loved, or feeling let down (for example) then it’s not surprising that all we ever see are negative outcomes to anything we attempt – and so experience resistance or a lack of motivation for achieving them.

Cognitive Hypnotherapy could help – to reframe the past, and to help your partner to re-tune her mind to begin to antcipate more positive outcomes.

However, she does need to want to engage in the process, client’s don’t often get better by lying there and leaving it to the therapist.

Unfortunately we don’t have anyone in Dubai yet…